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Jul 09, 2009 -- Couples need to restart communication about money

Do you have trouble talking to your significant other about money? You're not alone.

New research from Fidelity Investments shows that more than 80% of spouses disagree about major issues in planning for retirement. We're talking about things like when to retire, whether or not to work part-time in retirement, lifestyle expectations during retirement, etc.

Other disturbing stats from the research show that 4 out of 10 couples don't know if they have an annuity. And only 1 in 3 couples have ever talked about what investments they should have as a couple.

That's just not healthy.

Perhaps the most telling stat of all is that only 15% of respondents said they were confident their spouse could handle the finances in the event of their death.

Couples generally only start to talk about finances and retirement when there's a problem. That's too late.

Executive producer Christa and her husband like to have what they call "money movie night" each Friday where they put a film on for their children, fire up a frozen pizza and go over their finances using Mint.com to track spending.

Make an appointment with your spouse to discuss what you have, what you want and what your goals are. This should be an ongoing discussion -- not just one talk -- but just get the ball rolling.

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  • With my spouse I lop 15% off the top for retirement and another 10% for normal savings/debt reduction with each paycheck. I don't really care what we do with the other 75% and we love off of that. It seems to work well and so far we have been able to save.
  • Restart Communications
    Jonathan,
    It's never too late to try. Show her how much better she could live if both you and her sat down and started talking about money. My wife and I are making good money, but spending most of what we make. She had no idea what the monthly expenses were, and I didn't do ANYTHING to try to bring her into that process. Now I am SLOWLY starting to show her what our household expenses are. I can't wait for the day when we are truly working as partners on our finances. It was BOTH our faults.

    Don't give up. Please try marriage counseling. It's worth trying to save your marriage.
  • Restart Communication, you're kidding right ?
    I'm done with communication ! When your spouse takes her car note money to the slot machines and loses it all, when overdrawn statements from her checking account come in the mail once a week, when your spouse has a part time and full time and don't have any money to put gas in her car, when your spouse wants to be married, but act like a single woman, i'm sorry Clark and Krista i love you guys and the whole staff, but communication for this married couple is over, for good ! Only communication left is in divorce court. I love the show, keep up the great work !
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