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Jul 16, 2008 -- Getting compulsive shopping under control

A recent study in The American Journal of Psychiatry reveals that about 1 in 16 Americans -- some 6% of us -- have compulsive spending habits.

This kind of behavior leads to a momentary rush of adrenaline, but afterward comes the financial hangover. Christa has done a lot in her life to take control of her wayward spending habits. She believes that if you're always buying new clothes, for example, you disrespect the things you already have in your closet. When the shopping bug bites you, try paying attention to the stuff you've already acquired in your life.

On a related note, Clark once owned a house built in 1937. The master bedroom's sole master closet was all of 2 x 1.5 feet in dimension! During those Great Depression years, that was big enough for a middle-class husband and wife. Today, a closet of that size would never work. Some people have so much clothing that they can go for months without wearing the same thing.

Clark believes the best way to tackle compulsive spending is with shock therapy -- you've got to ban yourself from stores! Let's say you're prone to go on a shopping binge when you feel blue. You've got to make sure you don't even get into the car to go to the store or the mall.

Here are some more thoughts about getting compulsive spending under control:

• Only buy non-perishables every 6 weeks and buy your perishables on a weekly basis.

• Sell all belongings that you don't use. Don't buy new things to replace them.

• Freeze your credit cards (literally) if the temptation to shop is too great. Put them on ice in your freezer.

• Always be mindful of your needs vs. your wants.

• Adopt a cash-only approach.


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What others are saying

  • Economizing for the Big Crunch
    So, go on ahead and splurge on a nice restaurant on occasion --- but look at the menu selection. Consider the ingredients. Go home and duplicate your favorite gourmet dinner for dollars less than the cost of dining out. You'll discover that not only does it taste better, but it may be healthier, as well!
  • Compulsive spending
    Make a buget , make it visual so you see income and out go , Plan your expenses and stick to it. Once you see how much you spend on catagories it will prevent impulse spending .
  • mind over matter?
    Good posts here. Many indicate it's just keeping your mind diverted away from the temptations.
  • Feeling Blue
    I have CUT my credit cards-becasue it is too easy to de-freeze them! Also, now I am volunteering my time rather then spending it shopping on me. Makes me feel better without the guilty feeling after words for spending money I should not have spent!
  • Curb your spending
    Appreciation: When I get the urge to shop, I try on the clothes and shoes in my closet.
    My dad and I meet to get pizza in the mall every week-closest to New York we can get. I only bring a few dollars to pay for dinner, no extras!
  • Spending with Friends
    Shopping with friends can be way costly. Instead try going to one anothers homes and cleaning a room or doing yard work. Lots gets done, a bit of excersize and no cost.
  • Spending with Friends
    Shopping with friends can be way costly. Instead try going to one anothers homes and cleaning a room or doing yard work. Lots gets done, a bit of excersize and no cost.
  • Compulsive buying.
    One of the ways my wife and I curbed spending is just before we went to buy it we asked how much it would sell next week at a garge sale. We would discuss what the resale price would be laugh and usually put the item back. We also judged our spending based on the amount of trash at the curb. The more you spend the more trash goes to the curb.
  • I agree
    Maybe people who shop to much, can start surfing missing money dot com, and enter a few Publisher's Clearing House contests?
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